●D/s mental control

                                                                                                                            4Aug11
Sir -  this is  something from a discussion forum [ Fetlife]
of  subs  and Doms commenting on 'mental bdsm'. 
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The sub --

 I believe  mental control is  valuable  for a  successful D/s relationship.

To me, it's him being in my mind when I don't see it, or know it, and there even when I do.  His finding and using ways of keeping the connection alive when we are apart.  It's  molding and  shaping me  into what  he wants
 to see --ways of thinking,  behaviors, habits, obedience, devotion..

The Dom::
"I love how My control builds and builds to where a sub no longer questions---only obeys.   We may discuss the  'why ' later  but when an order is given,  sub will obey."
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 A Dom says:
I love being able to mentally trump her and watch her squirm. She usually digs herself a deeper hole, all the while trying  to get out of it.  I absolutely love it.
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a sub says:  
Well, I feel  that one aspect of Ds  is the chase, the manuevering, the ebb and flow  - the mental  and physical)  probing.. perhaps, focusing in on something that the Dom  knows is a vulnerability or something that is intensely surreal or erotic or edgy.

Being backed into a corner is,  to me,  the most erotic surrender.  No place
to run.  No place to hide.  Captured. And  it is that moment in time when you realize who you are and what you are. Power exchange at its ultimate. Raw.
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