♥ Submissive Loving : The Dominant ~Resource for dominants in a D/s relationship

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CLICK>    The Dominant:  Resource for Dominants  in  a D/s relatiuonship  
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                                                          Some of the topics :

D/s 101 Get to know the basics of bdsm before you begin. What on earth is D/s? What does it mean and is it for you? Dom/sub 101 is my attempt at explaining it all as simply as possible. Domination and submission: A Dom's Point of View When I look around the web, and listen to people talk on IRC, I am amazed at the wealth of information that abounds on BDSM...in all of its flavors and varieties. Much of this information tends to be technique oriented..."how to flog" or "using clothes pins." There is nothing wrong with that... Advice to a Novice Dominant How does a new Dominant begin with a sub? This is a fantastic article which will help the newbies out there wanting to dominate me. I also encourage ALL Dom/Dommes to visit this page. There are some very good points regarding Dominance. Dom/sub 101 is my attempt at explaining it all as simply as possible. Points to Ponder - More Advice for Dominants Eight interesting points to think about regarding dominance. #1. If you have to lie about yourself in order to get someone to submit to you, they did not submit to you. Qualities of a Successful Dom Very few people actually have what it takes to be successful dominants, and real dominants are actually quite rare, as many more people have the desire to dominate someone sadomasochistically than have the ability to do it well. To dominate someone full-time and in person requires a lot of very hard work on the dominant's part; a successful dominant does this hard work because the rewards, for him, are worth it. New Master's Creed (The Modern Master) The Modern Master recognises His responsibility that in accepting the gift of submission  from His slave/submissive, He has obligations.